At some point, we're all going to die.
Naturally, most people don't want to think about it.
But everybody wants to go to heaven. How do we get there?
Recently, my wife and I watched Mrs. Harris Goes To Paris. I'm not necessarily recommending the movie, but there was a great scene that (likely unintentionally) challenged a common misconception about heaven and how people get there.
Even if you haven't seen the movie, I think you may find this scene to be a good metaphor to help you understand the truth about heaven and get what you really want.